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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

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الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

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i separated with my husband, because of a problem...

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i separated with my husband, because of a problem where he used to imagine me cheating on him and believing that, like he lied to him self and believes it, he used to imagine hearing voices while we talk on the phone, imagine seeing people around me while we're on skype, it got worse where he started selecting people randomly and accusing me of cheating on him with those people, this lasted for 3 months i couldn't take it anymore so i separated from him, he was really attached at the beginning of the separation he was threatening me and following me everywhere i go, he even was making up stories so he gets me to talk to him he reached a crazy place just to get me to talk to him i was really determinate not to, i didn't answer him anywhere, he as a person is unstopable the thing im finding really weird that he stopped sending me e-mails 14 days ago last time i saw him was last monday where he acted that he ran into me and went away just to show me that he doesnt care about me im saying acted because he came to my university just to use the bathroom that what he was showing me then drove a car with his friend and once he made sure im gone he came back in the same place so his family car could pick him up from that place, it was all an act so after that he didn't show up anywhere and no e-mails since 14 days now im wondering im the love of his life and he can't survive me do you have any idea why he's quite we've been separated since 23 of September 2017 now, he's crazy in love with me what would be the reason behind him staying this quite ?

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today happen to be our anniversary i thought he'd do something but he didn't either, im finding it really hard to believe that he's this quite, the thing he stopped completely was his e-mails, but he kept showing up later on to show me he doesnt care about me at all, but now since last monday he didn't showed up either

إجابة الخبير: Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

Dear Customer,                                                                                                                                         

Thanks for joining and trusting us, you are very welcome in Jawabkom!

We would like to inform you that it is clear that your husband did not forget you, he is watching you closely but he believes that if he left you for a break and away from you will feel the importance of him and rethink and look for him. So as not to forget him from time to time shows in your way to feel that he is not interested and you become afraid of losing his interest and think as you do now” Where did he go? So at the end you try to communicate with him.

I saw that your husband loves you and wants you and his doubt was because of jealousy and love for you but exaggeratedly, which spoiled the relationship, if any of it found any contact or coincidence once again with him talk and do not respond and make him return to offer back to you again and time dictated your conditions that he must try control his emotions and jealousy and you belong to him and not for others and must trust you and himself so as not to spoil the relationship between you for the second time and kill feelings inside you.

It is possible for you to seek help from a psychologist to train him to control his emotions, anger and jealousy.

 

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الرد من العميل

Hmmmm thank you for your effort and detailed answer, im not planing to contact him ever again do you think he will ?

إجابة الخبير: Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

Dear madam ,

 

He will keep on trying to appear in front of you, but will not get in unless he sees you moving on in your life and relationships. As he knows that his insist will increase the distance because he fears to lose you again. Mostly, there is someone that might advised him to leave you for a while, so you miss him. However if you do not want to return to him, you have to stop monitoring his behaviors in order to move on and get over this matter. I wish you luck  

          

kind regards

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thank you so much this was really helpful

إجابة الخبير: Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

dear madam , you are welcome any time 
wish you luck 
best regards

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