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Dr. Saeed Nabhan

Dr. Saeed Nabhan

Certified Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 10120 | نسبة الرضا 98.9%

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Good evening My name is mari, 29 years old, from...

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Good evening My name is mari, 29 years old, from Georgia . I got married two years ago with an Egyptian man , both we are Christians and I moved to Dubai . My husband is an events manager and already was based in Dubai science 5 years before we met . We got married very fast , like we know each other for 2 weeks only . When we start to live together he told me that he had debts which was quite high , also he told me that he have to help his family for apart rent in Egypt which was not big amount with Dirham currency , but over all it made me feel unsecured as most his sallery was all about debts . As we start to live together debts starts to grow we had wedding , documents payment etc . But still we was ok . I had enough and never felt his debt problems but I had problem in my mind , feeling unsecured . We were fighting a lot but still we were happy . After one year I decided to join hairdressers school as it was really hard for me to work in the sales as they was asking experienced one in Dubai market and same time I always loved to do hair .but as in Dubai was extremely expensive my husband told me to travel to georgia and study there , he had a point first price second he was not happy watching me feeled bored and a lot of time lonely and stressed . So I went to Georgia for 6 month and he was traveling every month or I traveled for him . After graduation I back to Dubai and it was time he had a lot of events abroad so we had not enough time to spend together . One day just few weeks ago I descivered that he was flirting , and chatting with escorts used spesufic apps for that . I found few woman but I am sure he was doing this from long time . When I asked him why he do that he said he doesn’t knows and he might had habit as he used to sleep with them before we got merrier or he said might I am sick but he said he hates it he loves me and he will never do it again and he s happy I found out . I gave home one chance and we are fine now . Meanwhile I never felt anything as he was good husband over all and always was taking care of me as he could . But still something changed in me and I feel confused if I can trust again , might I m not clever or this kind of things . I just need different mind to shake me and to wake up and see things the way it is . Thank you

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Dr. Saeed Nabhan

Dr. Saeed Nabhan

Certified Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 10120 | نسبة الرضا 98.9%

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There is no doubt that when the man cheats on the woman and talk to others , the woman will change. Therefore, his honesty means that he loves you, he may contact this girl before marrying you and could not end this relation. When you found out about this he said that he is happy that you knew and he realize that he should end it. it is fine until now; however, it depends on you to follow up this matter make sure of his words. Try to face the thoughts that trying to control you towards your husband and confront them. Be sure that he loves you, each person commits mistakes and he has apologized and admitted his fault. You must forgive him and be positive towards his honesty

  

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الأسئلة المجابة 10120 | نسبة الرضا 98.9%

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