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.it's about my father in law he's making my life...

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.it's about my father in law he's making my life hell. he's getting into my nerves. he doesn't let me live peacefully. he made a mess and pokes everything even if it's a small thing. I live in uae with my husband and my in-laws live Pakistan .the thing is that he calls him daily and fights with him and abuse him not physically But emotional like your wife is no good why you left and blah blah blah and the most miserable thing is that he doesn't shut his mouth. and doesn't like my family he keep Calling my family names and I don't talk to him on phone. my family doesn't go to my in-laws because of his behaviors.so he called me to go wherever you want to deliver your baby I give a damn if your family isnt coming.t broke my heart and I decided to do here with my husband now he called again if I don't go to Pakistan he will come here and take me .my husband is overprotective of me .he's not leaving me alone but his father pressured breaking him it's disturbing our married life like his father doesn't listen doesn't understand keep calling him and insult him and me .now I don't want to go Pakistan for delivery but if I'm staying here for the sake of me I don't want him to interfere in our married life making decisions. I want to stand this time but staying here is like open battle for him and my husband I don't know what to do please help how to tackle things and how to smooth things with staying here please help me out

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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

Dear Madam

 

 

Of course, pleasing father in law is important, but it is obvious that his son is defending you because he knows that his father is mistaken. Do not think that if you return, things will calm down. It will increase the interference in your life and will strain your life so that you never think in getting back again

The important thing is that you and your husband agree on only one thing, and you tell him that you want the best for his father, but you don’t know how and you are afraid that the problems will increase if you go and he stays. Your husband also has to know that you do not want to cause problems and you care about his father, but you do not want to get away from your husband.

My advice to you is to stay where you are, ignore the actions of your father in law and support your husband. One day your father in law will stop if he finds out that you are not affected by his problems and do notsatisfy his desires which does not suit your life.

 

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