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Dr. Raedah Hamdy

Dr. Raedah Hamdy

Certified Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 14449 | نسبة الرضا 97.7%

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Welcome! How can I help with your legal questio...

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Welcome! How can I help with your legal question? Hello, good evening. My name is Leo (not in real). I was working in abroad, I met a person here,she's working here also, but from other country like me. We fall in love, but she's already married before 3 years. She is here working almost 2 years now.She don't have a kid yet. I know about it all before I started to love her. Since she is with me she stopped contacting with her husband,and he is in their country. They only contact through Facebook. I know that. And it's okay with me.We decided to get marry and live together when we go back to our countries after we will finish our contract here.I really love her, she do back also. We never had a sexual things yet.Everything going well. But the problem is nowadays when she sending messages to him, I am like really disturbed,depress...I don't want her to talk to him anymore, I told her, and she did. But he is keeping sending messages to her..she didn't replying..after some months I was feeling like I destroyed their family life,i am a sinner,,all..and I told her everything...let's breakup..do not cheat him anymore..call him and tell him everything what happened you..but she doesn't want, she want to be with me..I want too..but I am doing a wrong thing..I destroyed her family life, I told her everything..but she DON'T want leave me..she said when she go back to her country she will wait for me. And I know she will. she is so kind Where are you located? It matters because laws vary by location I'm sorry, I didn't completed it, my keyboard problem, anyway I am here in Qatar, if you can contact me I will give you my contact number Has anything been filed or reported? No, nothing Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you? This is is, I want she leave me, it doesn't mean I dont want her, but I don't want anything happen to her and her family because of me..what will I do

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Dr. Raedah Hamdy

Dr. Raedah Hamdy

Certified Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 14449 | نسبة الرضا 97.9%

Dear Customer,        
Thanks for joining and trusting us, much appreciated!
 
We would like to inform you that your relationship with this woman is based on mistake from the beginning, because you decided to be with a married woman in a relationship so all that have become a love regardless the presence of the husband in her life, but you thought correctly when you tried to get away from her and pushed her keep her family well together, so take the step and break your relationship with her and go away from her in order she could control her feelings and overcome her feelings towards you and accept her life with her husband.
Make sure not to be the reason of destroying this family in particular and the cause of
the beginning of many problems for you and for her
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How do I leave her? What will I tell her? Can you please tell me the procedures?

إجابة الخبير: Dr. Raedah Hamdy

Dr. Raedah Hamdy

Dr. Raedah Hamdy

Certified Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 14449 | نسبة الرضا 97.8%

,Dear Customer
Thanks for joining and trusting us, much appreciated
It does not depend on the specific words you tell her, but it depends on how to act wisely to end.this relationship with minimal psychological damage to you and her
Express your actual feelings that you love her and do not want to be a reason to demolish her home, and that this is better for both of you
Also, tell her that this relationship from basically was not our right because you are married. We made a mistake, and we have to correct it. You have to help her forget you. You also need this to move on with your life
Get rid of all the possessions she gave you, and tell her to dispose all your gifts
You need to change your phone number and delete hers from your contact list, and also delete all the messages, the pictures and all the memories between both of you
Ask her to do the same, in addition to remove her from all social network sites because knowing all her daily life details prevents you from forgetting her, and also it is the same for her; she will not be able to forget you and she will miss you always. So, you have to cut all the connections between both of you even if you felt sad at the beginning, but afterwards, you will be strong
Advise her to practice sports and keep herself constantly busy, and leave no room for feeling emptiness that drives her to think again of you
Sir, do not worry about her grief at first, this is natural. Let time heal things and follow the previous pieces of advice
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الأسئلة المجابة 14449 | نسبة الرضا 97.7%

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