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Dr. Raedah Hamdy

Dr. Raedah Hamdy

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Hi I want to consult u about my daughter she is...

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Hi I want to consult u about my daughter she is 4years old but she cries too much when she want any thing so I cannot understand her please help me
Assistant: Have you seen a doctor about this yet? What medications are you taking?
No medication
Assistant: Anything else in your medical history you think the doctor should know?
Yes now she goes nursery

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Dr. Raedah Hamdy

Dr. Raedah Hamdy

Certified Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 14449 | نسبة الرضا 97.6%

 

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Some of children in this age cannot express their feelings or needs and use crying or nagging to have their needs. This may be due to several reasons
-Weak verbal communication. If the child has difficulty speaking or does not have sufficient linguistic output to express an emotion that responds to the annoying situations of crying and others respond to anger and violence
-Fear and extreme stress as a result of parents' nervous or violent treatment
-Attract attention and get more attention
-she may use the method of crying because it has proven to her that its success with you and fulfilled its demands even if one time so she repeat it to get other things.

To resolve this issue, you can follow the following:
-make the child feels with love, acceptance and attention
-Establish a positive relationship with her and talk to her a lot and train her on how to express her feelings using words
-Ignore the crying behavior of the child and not respond to any demand or hear her talk, but calmly tell her that you know that there is something upset her or something she need and I am willing to hear you after stopping your crying and leave her until she calm down and then start the discussion with her (try to talk to her or translate her feelings to speaking, for example, that you angry because I prevented you from sweets

-All the positive behavior has reinforced her to raise her self-confidence
-Avoid violence and nervousness when dealing with her 
-Dedicate a daily time to sit with the girl and read her some stories
-You have to be patient because the modification of behavior needs time to change and this is done gradually, provided that the parents deal properly

 

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