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Alia Ahmed
Psychotherapist
الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%
Marriage & Family Counseling
Good day sir,please I need counselling on my...
Good day sir,please I need counselling on my marriage.Am married to a hot tempered man who always want thing done his way my opinion doesn't count,and am hot tempered too so we argue everytime.what can I do?
Assistant: Have you sought out therapists or counsellors about this before? ...or tried anything else?
No
Assistant: Anything else you think the psychologist should know before I connect you?
I just love my husband and I don't want to loose him
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Alia Ahmed
Psychotherapist
الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%
Dear Madam,
Welcome, and thank you for trusting us
I know exactly what you feel, it is hurting, but you have to get over it and do the following:
When your husband feels angry and start yelling, be calm and strong. Anxiety, hyperactivity, crying, weakness and fear, all of these things will agitate him more and more. Do not stand broken before him. Stay calm and respected. Do not look at him in tensed way and do not make your looks meaningless. Listen to him, but do not be affected of his voice.
If you do not listen to him, he will be agitated more and more. Do not let him feel ignored or his feelings do not matter. Do not argue with him, if it feels him weak.
Do not compromise your right in order to let him get silent. Be calm and always try to postpone the argument for another time, when you find him calm.
Compromising makes you lose lots of things and be in pain. Always remember, it is a time, which will pass.
After you feel that he calmed down, try to feel remorse and sad for you. Do not try to punish him, but show him your sad face and you are disappointed at him.
If you argue and shout, he will be more stubborn than before. Do not make him agitated by not talking to him, as he will be a problem creator. Be polite and treat him nicely. Be sad in order to make him feel remorse
Talk to him about the topic when he is calm. Tell him that this issue affects your life and you want a happy life with him without any anger and try to help him treat himself and control his temper
I highly recommend you to make a phone call to me. In cases like yours, I found that phone calls helped much in clarifying the legal status in details. If you would like, you can make a phone call to us. It will cost you a little. Please click on the link below:
We are privileged to communicate with you, and you can always consult many experts on Jawabkom like Doctors, Nutritionists, and Engineers
Kind Regards
Welcome, and thank you for trusting us
I know exactly what you feel, it is hurting, but you have to get over it and do the following:
When your husband feels angry and start yelling, be calm and strong. Anxiety, hyperactivity, crying, weakness and fear, all of these things will agitate him more and more. Do not stand broken before him. Stay calm and respected. Do not look at him in tensed way and do not make your looks meaningless. Listen to him, but do not be affected of his voice.
If you do not listen to him, he will be agitated more and more. Do not let him feel ignored or his feelings do not matter. Do not argue with him, if it feels him weak.
Do not compromise your right in order to let him get silent. Be calm and always try to postpone the argument for another time, when you find him calm.
Compromising makes you lose lots of things and be in pain. Always remember, it is a time, which will pass.
After you feel that he calmed down, try to feel remorse and sad for you. Do not try to punish him, but show him your sad face and you are disappointed at him.
If you argue and shout, he will be more stubborn than before. Do not make him agitated by not talking to him, as he will be a problem creator. Be polite and treat him nicely. Be sad in order to make him feel remorse
Talk to him about the topic when he is calm. Tell him that this issue affects your life and you want a happy life with him without any anger and try to help him treat himself and control his temper
I highly recommend you to make a phone call to me. In cases like yours, I found that phone calls helped much in clarifying the legal status in details. If you would like, you can make a phone call to us. It will cost you a little. Please click on the link below:
We are privileged to communicate with you, and you can always consult many experts on Jawabkom like Doctors, Nutritionists, and Engineers
Kind Regards
إسأل Psychotherapist
Alia Ahmed
Psychotherapist
الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%
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