I am a single mum , my little girl is about 19...

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We would like to inform you that of course, the child is young, but she knows what is happening around her and understands the meaning of the family. It is good that there are those who are compensating her by her father's absence, but the most important is that the do not move away from her life. She will later realize that he is her uncle and not her father. Her psychology will be greatly affected if he left her as she lost her father before. You must explain later to her when she begins to realize that he is her uncle and that he loves her so much and that he will always be around for her even if he has to move away from her because it is possible to be away for any reason, that does not mean that he does not love her but because he has something else should care about. Also, as you love her and you will be next to her all the time but you have to leave her at work time so that you can save enough money to sponsor and provide a good life for her. In regard to her father, you have to tell her about him and let her see his photos and get to know that he is in a distant place he cannot contact her and he loves her and wants to stay next to her but he is unable to do so and when she grow up explain to her that her father already moved away but he certainly wants and loves her but does not know how can he compensates for the loss of their relationship so he is definitely afraid to meet her. If you are providing a quiet life and a healthy environment for her and your brother is next to you to make up for the absence of her father will inevitably arise psychologically good and will not be affected by this problem, it is important that you do not let her feel that there is something missing or different from children in her age.

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