I am 21 years old girl, I think I have philopho...

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We would like to inform you that it is possible that you suffer from the phobia of marriage, but in a simple way that the phobia of marriage is the expression of fear of patients of commitment and it is within men more than women. There are several reasons behind the feeling of this phobia as the reasons must be known to facilitate the process of treatment and these symptoms:

Having trouble taking responsibility for not getting used to it in your childhood or youth.

Fear of marital life routine and fear of sacrificing of your independence.

Fear of failure, and then divorce that will lose you everything.

Fear of marrying a man even if you love him and meet the man of your dreams after marriage, so you keep delaying until you meet the man of your dreams.

Fear of family responsibilities from visits and courtesies.

A person who is raised in a home with problems or a home in which there are disputes between the mother and the father or between two separate parents is more susceptible to such phobia.

Of course, the opinions of friends, especially married women, have a great influence on decision-making, especially if you see many marital problems before you, but life does not have any guarantees and it does not make sense that there are those who have not succeeded in their marital life or are unable to deal with them that you will not be able to do so, as everything has pros and cons.

Now you have your independence, but after marriage you will have sharing so you are called a life partner. If you choose your suitable partner, you will not suffer any problems. In choosing the husband, you will not find the full man because you are not a perfect person too, but there are priorities that you give and when you find them in a person you control your mind and heart together. If you feel that you tend to him emotionally then he is the right husband for you, and choose the husband whom you can bear his disadvantages and not the one whom you love his advantages and the search for someone has a good living and not only a good looking.

And the person who advises you, for example, not to marry, a day will come and he will take care of his life and his children or grow up in age and find those who care about him and children love him and ask about him. At that time you will find yourself alone and we cannot get everything from life and everything we want, you cannot get a husband and children and share in the same you get complete independence, but you can get some privacy and in the end that marriage is the part of life so choose the husband well and make good deeds to the satisfaction of Allah and will find happiness.

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