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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

Marriage & Family Counseling

I have been in love with my partner for the past...

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I have been in love with my partner for the past 5-6 yrs .. we have been in love since. But i am doubting the feelings of love because of his weird sexual desires. He likes me to strip to other men while he masturbates on it! He says he fonds me very sexy and he is jealous so he takes out his jealousy while i do that! I find it degrading and humiliating but i have tried to adapt and tried to get into it with him to please him. He prefers to do that rather that have sexual encourer with me ..eventhough i am very sexual and i constantly wantto have sex with him... and i look sexy and all our friends tell him i look pretty. He saves videos of me stripping to other men and making them ejaculate so that he masturbates on those. Pls help me understand why he does that.. it hurts me to know that it is ok for him to wxpose me and share me with other men.
Assistant: Have you sought out therapists or counsellors about this before? ...or tried anything else?
No never i have been very ashamed of it.. and i did not want anyone to think abt him badly
Assistant: Anything else you think the psychologist should know before I connect you?
He ia bery controlling and does not teust me eventhough i have always been very honest and faithful to him.. he does not liek me to be around other men in real life his fantasy is usually executed on video chats only .. in real life he is extremely jealous on me.. which is very contrasting to the fact that he wants to expose me virtually!

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إجابة الخبير: Dr. Ahmad Awad

Dr. Ahmad Awad

Dr. Ahmad Awad

Relationship Therapist

الأسئلة المجابة 14491 | نسبة الرضا 97.8%

Dear Customer,
Thanks for joining and trusting us, much appreciated!
 
We would like to inform you that true love is that the two sides maintain a relationship in the light of pure feelings and taking care of each other, what he does is a behavioral and moral deviation and certainly he has a psychological problem because it is not normal to make you strip for others, and on the other hand to do this to him this is unacceptable and beyond the limits, so my dear if he loves you honestly, why does he make you do this? Because he only looks sexually at you, and you have to end your relationship with him completely, and look for a person who protects you and respects you and respects your feelings.
Love and life does not stop for anyone.
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الرد من العميل

Thank you for your response.. i have already left him .. i was stupid to have ever agreed to do it but he aways made me feel as though i should do it cus he might not be hapy with me if i don't .. anyway i loved him so much but i left a week ago because i realised what u told me. But my question was "why" wouldnhe think this way" what psychological" issue could that be.. he begged me to go back and he will make it up to me.. but i realised that he is sick and that i am not safe with him.. he insisted that he loves me so much and want to make it up to me... i will not go back .. but i just meeded an explaination for his behavior!

إجابة الخبير: Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

Dear Customer,                     

Thanks for joining and trusting us, much appreciated!

 

We would like to inform that All things that's contrary to the nature of human beings is deviation and anomaly is suffering from a kind of sexual aberrations may be the reason watching pornographic abnormal because he does not enjoy only if he sees a woman who has relationships with others even if he is not a party that he was addicted to pornographic films and masturbation therefore reached the stage of deviation and even get rid of that situation must be aware that he already suffers from a real problem and resort to psychological treatment and the doctor through emotional emptying sessions to reach the main cause of the situation and treatment with the help of the patient himself and then modify the concepts of sexual relations to return to his crime Natural rehabilitation is to deal again with the community properly.

 

If you have another question, feel free to ask us and we will answer with pleasure.

 

I hope my answer was helpful, please let me know if you have any follow up questions. If you feel I've answered your question already, please rate my answer from top of the page. Your feedback helps to ensure only the best experts are available to help you.

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Alia Ahmed

Alia Ahmed

Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%

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