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Alia Ahmed
Psychotherapist
الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%
I just found out that my husband is cheating on me...
الرد من العميل
He didnt make me feel yet that he regrets it i have found out the last few days I'm angry and hurt I cried a lot but today I decided I have to be strong so when I went out at night with friends he acted angry and jealous also I don't think he lives or he wouldn't have done this
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Alia Ahmed
Psychotherapist
الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%
Welcome, and thank you for trusting us
Madam, you should be close to your husband. You have to treat him nicely even if he is away. You husband needs your emotions and feelings, as you should fill his life with joy and do not let space for another woman to enter your husband's life. Most men love to be needed and loved. Choose the right time to talk to him about your life and tell him that his betrayals hurt you and make you lose confidence in him. Tell him that you did not expect him to do that. Talk to him quietly, let him speak of his problems and what he is hiding from you. Try to give him what he wants in order to heighten the intimacy between you two. Do not argue with him a lot. If he tries to justify his actions or deny them, do not correct him, just listen and be respective. Argument always lead to loss and it could turn over on you. WE know that you are hurt, but in order to take back your husband, you should let him speak and you should trust him again. If he is honest with you and promises you not to do it again, you should believe him and open a new chapter. Finally, in order to make him love you more and more, you should change in your style and your way of talking. Try to do him nice things in bed, so he fulfil his sexual need
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الرد من العميل
This is too hard he told me details and what's funny he's saying he didnt have sex he said they did everything else but didn't go all the way who believes that as if it will make me feel better I read your answer everything you said about fulfilling his needs in total i was doing more than that he had everything going for him he has a beautiful family I was more attentive to him more than anything else in my life I'm still in my home and I'm hurting because I really live him i always have but I cant handle it it's too hard I cant jump in his arms and have sex with him and he just cheated on me big time I think it's better to get a device he's seeing me break down and he's not showing much affection or caring I haven't slept for 7days or ate I really can't help it and he's been talking to me in a bad mood please advice me more what I can do how can i know that he really will stop and he regrets it
إجابة الخبير: Alia Ahmed
Alia Ahmed
Psychotherapist
الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%
Dear Customer,
Thanks for joining and trusting us, much appreciated!
We would like to inform you that what I mean in my message that you shall not make your husband feels uncomfortable in his house and that he is punished so he will go to the other one. But you shall talk with him and tell him your feelings and that he broke your heart and you never expect that from him. If he apologize tell him that his apology will not heal the damage inside you, but you need to trust him again as this is his mission he has to make you feel confidence and what he did is mistake and he will not back to that.
Moreover, your husband shall recognize that you are still strong even you had that issue, and recognize that you have new special life for you that you don’t depend on him and you are responsible for yourself, so he will be afraid to lose you and try his best to gain your trust again.
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Alia Ahmed
Psychotherapist
الأسئلة المجابة 47975 | نسبة الرضا 98.1%
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