i have been in to marriage for 7 years with one...

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We would like to inform you that doubt leads to the collapse of marital life, but in order to preserve your daughter, you must give him other chances, but I will give you some tips to deal with your husband as below:
- Beware in dealing with him, he concentrates too much and interpreted it as a threat, so you must think about every word in dealing with him and be as brief as possible. Do not speak words and phrases more than meaning and meaning, or a long talk difficult to understand and easier to analyze and interpret more than meaning.
- Be frank and clear with him in the words and deeds so as not to raise suspicion in himself do not act foolish behavior and raise his suspicion.
- Do not raise doubts about the puzzles in your words and actions, and do not try Madam ignite the fire of jealousy with him is playing a risk and lead to doubt.
- Do not exaggerate in frankness with him or apologize to him, if you are treated towards shortening, it may explain your actions explanation other than what you meant. And do not give him apologies and permanent justifications, he understands that you are weak and hide something and you want to convince him.
- Avoid his criticism, especially in front of people, and I have what you see right in a gentle manner without the offense or the obligation to change his convictions, it is not easy to do so. He is convinced that he is always right, do not try to argue to convince him of his error, and do not criticize his words and actions in front of others, he is convinced that he is the only one who understands and does not skip.
- If you need to talk to him, so resort to convincing evidence and strong arguments and calm dialogue, with caution of its projections. If necessary, I calmly discuss without sterile argument, and gave him evidence, such as confessions and statements of those who were with you in that position.
- Do not let him blame you about his mistakes and shortness and loopholes, and do not face him violently and explode only if you have the authority so you can take control of the situation, and you have enough evidence and witnesses. Do not agree to drop false and fabricated errors against your right. Your silence means your consent and that e is right, try to justify yourself quietly without controversy.
- If he appreciate your respect to him, continue to respect him always without interruption and do not despise him if he can not, he is excused, because he may be suffering from a doubt, put yourself in his place.
- If you see that verbal confrontation in a certain position will not work, try not to argue with him. Frequent talk with him, especially the moment of anger may not benefit, leave him calm and later to justify yourself, and do not complicate the situation during the occurrence.
- Finally, note that doubt is a kind of obsession, if it is too much, then try to convince him to go to a psychiatrist. If he refuses, ask help from one of his close relatives, and you have to face his control and his desire to use you more confidently and do not allow him to ignore this, and talk with him in clever way and kind as well.
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