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Dr. Enas Baroud

Dr. Enas Baroud

Certified Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 25218 | نسبة الرضا 98.7%

Marriage & Family Counseling

Hi, so I've been a bit confused lately and need...

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Hi, so I've been a bit confused lately and need some help. I'm all hopes that you can give me an answer. I've been in a relationship with a guy for 3 years now and we're in love and honestly he's just perfect. He takes care of me, holds complete responsibility and most of all knows how to make me happy. I love him a lot and I can't imagine my life without him but he's older than me (a 19 year old gap) my parents are not happy with my choice. And people on streets give us looks sometimes and clam that he is my father rather than my fiance. I don't want to loose him, he's a great person and we're about the get married. What should I do?
Assistant: Have you sought out therapists or counsellors about this before? ...or tried anything else?
Nope
Assistant: Anything else you think the psychologist should know before I connect you?
No, thank u

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Dr. Enas Baroud

Dr. Enas Baroud

Certified Psychotherapist

الأسئلة المجابة 25218 | نسبة الرضا 98.7%

Dear Customer,                                

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We would like to inform you that there is no doubt that the decision of marriage and engagement is your mainly decision then, your family, but you must realize that your choice must be within the specifications as you prefer such as feeling comfortable and reassurance towards him and that you feel happy and joy with him and this is essential in any future relationship.

So you have to realize that marrying a man 20 years older than you is not a problem, but there will be a difference in thinking and the perspective on life and the degree of needs will be different from a man of your age, but there are men who are open-minded and aware who are able to adapt and live happily with their wives. So you must make sure you feel harmony with him and understanding as well in order to ensure a happy life and psychological comfort with him, especially that marriage is one of the most important decisions made by people, so it must be given adequate attention and consult all those close to you and decide and do not hesitate to take any decision and be at a degree of responsibility towards yourself.

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الأسئلة المجابة 25218 | نسبة الرضا 98.7%

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