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How to confront a husband who is a hebephile

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Saeed Nabhan

Saeed Nabhan

Relationship Therapist

الأسئلة المجابة 8712 | نسبة الرضا 98.8%

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We would like to inform you that facing the attraction of your husband requires you to identify the reason why he was attracted to this particular category and since when he began to feel this matter, as well as you must seek clearly and explicitly to approach him and know the way he thinks.

Facing this situation requires his internal desire and then requires him to work to get rid of all the ideas that comes to his brain related to this attraction and he must not see this category and should stay away from sitting with them. He must always seek to occupy himself in achieving goals and never sitting alone and try to satisfy his lust with his wife in order to get rid of this attraction.

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Maybe i was not clear, i found instagram searches on his phone for young girls and clearly he was busy with himself while searching or else why would he search pictures of young girls? Pictures are of girls around 12-14 (pre-puberty) and he is now 41. I found out around a year ago while i was pregnant, and till 5 days ago i found new searches. There are other searches but were not sicking like the ones i saw as the girls are young. When i confronted him the first time he said he was traveling and he was away from me and so he did his business, sorry for the details, but i told him that is sickening because the girl wrote on her profile that she is 14 he said he didn't pay attention to the age and of course i did not believe. I ignored i thought it is a one time thing but clearly it was not, as it is still on going. My husband has a very hard approach and escalates things, and will make up excuses and so on, i told him i want to speak to you about something but must be in front of a specialist he refused. I cant show him proof (pics of the screen) as he will put a password on his phone and i will never find out again. I understand that sexually men are different than women, but if i saw normal searches i wouldnt make a big deal, someones men might want “relief” in private although i am not convinced of but if thats the case then what to do. I try to avoid being intimate with him because of this matter that he doesnt know of and i am deeply saddened. I am 31 and take good care of myself so it is not me to blame in anyway. Please advise. Thanks.

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Saeed Nabhan

Saeed Nabhan

Relationship Therapist

الأسئلة المجابة 8712 | نسبة الرضا 98.8%

Dear Customer,                                                        
Thanks for joining and trusting us, much appreciated!
 
We would like to inform you that some men may look for girls, especially in times when women are far from them, whether traveling or in their period time as that they are trying to satisfy their sexual desires, so you shall strive to understand the character of your husband and stop the problems between you and just follow him in a way that he does not feel that you do so, and try to satisfy the sexual desire of him in the sense that he will not be able to search for girls because he has no sexual feelings towards them, so you should pay attention to this continuously and try to let him get busy with the house's work and going out for walks or visits, as it is important not to make him go out away from you and try to keep always in touch while he is working to reassure on him and send him a message of love and affection and longing to stay with you in touch constantly and not to get busy with anyone else.
 
If you have another question, feel free to ask us and we will answer with pleasure.
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