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Not comfortable with my husband as he cheated nd...
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Dr. Ahmad Awad
Relationship Therapist
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Infidelity causes painful and negative feelings and makes women lose security and confidence in the marital relationship, but it is not easy to destroy a family home as a result of what your husband has done to satisfy his desires and pleasures that he lost in his marriage, and this of course does not give him the right to do so, but it is the only way to satisfy his desires or compensate for the emotional shortage in his marital life. You may see that you are doing well in your life duties, but know that your husband may have requirements that vary from time to time and you do not know, for example, he may want to see you in a certain way, or have a particular intimacy with him in a certain position and you may have missed about this, and in order to get out from this situation and know how to deal with him properly, you have to check following tips:
Be patient until you calm down and clarify things and be able to determine the damage you suffered.
Make him feel that you are a strong woman who have a strong will, conscious and education.
You have to make him feel wrong in order to regret it and not repeating it again.
Avoid blaming him and learn the art of listening, give him the opportunity to twll you his justifications and point of view, and discuss it without nervousness to develop solutions not to repeat the problem.
Whatever the size of the matter, the nature of the eastern man does not accept the humiliation from anyone, therefore, don't remind him of this matter in every dispute, and be careful not to destroy the marital relationship and lose it forever.
You need to know the reason and determine if it is a whim in his life so it will be easier for you to help fixing the relationship again and address it, but if he is a cheater of course, you must re-evaluate the relationship and make the appropriate decision.
Bring back trust to the relationship by openness and talking about feelings honestly and understanding his emotional and marital requirements.
Do everything to him in a new and distinctive way away from the routine, take care of yourself and how he likes you to be him.
Try to stop talking about this matter and not returning to it in order to heal the emotional wound, and renew feelings through closeness and attention.
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Dr. Ahmad Awad
Relationship Therapist
الأسئلة المجابة 14491 | نسبة الرضا 97.5%
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