I am not like married life because some times we...

Discussion and dispute are important and are in every martial and ordinary lives involving more than one party because of the different personalities and mindsets, as couple were living in different environments and family different from each other, so it is natural that each of them have his own life and ideas and behavior, but the marital relationship becomes a merger between these two personalities by consensus, dialogue, integration and access to a relationship respected by the two parties are based on principles and laws belonging to the parties and determined by themselves by positive consent and away from violence or coercion. And the way of conversation is your own decision and your decision shall be more from an internal acceptance and confidence between you. Try to avoid conversation and talk with the partner in the inappropriate times for both of you or when you are not ready to talk, and try to get to know the nature of your partner's personality and qualities and any personal patterns he belongs to deal with him easily. Also, the language of conversation shall be positive one and not by orders and nervousness to give each other the opportunity to express their own opinion and and talk, to meet each other's views and conversations with full focus, and the two partners show each other interest in each other's talk and stay away from unhelpful discussion so as not to deepen things and reach a sharp dispute between you.