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Hi, Greetings for the day! I got married 2 years...

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Hi, Greetings for the day! I got married 2 years back, mine was arranged marriage. My family & my husband's family lives in india, and me and my husband lives in dubai. After marriage, I lived for 3 months with in laws alone, my husband was in dubai at that time. I noticed that in laws behaved very badly with me, when I objected, they blamed me for everything and on top of that they insulted my parents as well. Immediately after that my husband called me here and since then we have been fighting on that same issue again and again. My husband believes that it's me who started the fight or I should keep quite if they behaved badly. But whenever he talks with my parents he admitted that mistake belongs to both side, he accepted my in law's fault also. I don't know how to handle all this. Plus I feel bad whenever my husband had any telephonic conversation with my in laws. I feel he don't loves me enough or feel insulted. Please help because this is disturbing my mental health

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الأسئلة المجابة 10142 | نسبة الرضا 97.8%

I really understand your feelings, that you feel injustice and that the misunderstanding that occurred disturbs you and affects your psychological health and your relationship with your husband and his family, but continuing this misunderstanding and not trying to solve it will make the problem bigger, and it is better now to reconcile your relationship with your husband and gain his family love without letting them feel that your personality is weak and that they can blame you for wrongdoing unjustly, sometimes marital and social intelligence in general is dependent on the ability to go through and act in balance and not scrutinize the details and renew the relationship and improve it, you can choose a suitable day and make a pleasant atmosphere for evening with your husband on the Internet or at home according to his presence with you or being abroad and tell him how much you love him and how much you do not want such misunderstanding to be an obstacle between you and him and that you are not going to be in an improper relationship with his family and you must forget what happened and start again because the family remains the most important, telling him this will make him proud of you and he will review himself regarding you and how he treats you and makes him  listens to his family’s talk in a balanced way and does not blame you like them. Try to gain his family love by visiting them and talking to them clearly that you do not want the relationship to continue with this misunderstanding and that your husband’s family matters to you and you can invite them for lunch, for example to try to fix things, and your attempt to win your husband’s family will make your relationship with your husband improve and your mood will improve greatly.
 
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