We would like to inform you that we understand the harsh feelings because of your best friend's being away from you, and the fact that your father is strict and angry most of the time, these experiences are unpleasant and affect the psychological health of the individual, but this should not lead us to negativity in an exaggerated manner and we must find ways to deal with the matter, we are responsible for our psychological health is in the first place, and perhaps what makes you more sensitive to these matters, being an exercise in adolescence, which is a stage in which many psychological, hormonal, emotional and physical changes occur that affect a teenager’s response to situations, his analysis of life matters, his understanding of events and experiences and how to deal with them, and perhaps your inability to control yourself led you.
For depression, which is a psychological physical disorder that makes the individual always feeling sad and depressed because he has experienced a psychological or emotional setback, or is subjected to a failed experience or his feeling of neglect and his exposure to abuse and cruelty and appears on the individual through severe mood swings, sudden bouts of crying without reason, appetite disorders, sleep disorders, avoid social interaction and friction with others, a tendency to convergence, a lack of sense of value and a low self-concept, and to bypass these things or improve your psychological state you can use the following guidelines:
* You can talk to your girlfriend again, understand the reasons why she left you and walk away, and try to find a space for understanding between you, and if it is difficult you can ask a third party as a friend, for example, to do so, and if the matter between you is finished, remind yourself that you are still at the beginning of your life and that friends are many and the world Spacious and life does not stop at a person and over time you will meet a new friend and be close to you
* Don't leave yourself to emptiness and loneliness because it is the entrance to negativity and try to distract your thinking from your girlfriend and focus your attention on your life and determine your priorities and goals in a real way and act accordingly.
* Spend more time with your siblings or relatives that you love to improve your mood
* Try to find comfortable rituals for yourself and serve as a safety circle for you, such as reading books that develop your personality and broaden the horizon of your thinking and correspond to your interests, adopt healthy life habits such as healthy eating style and exercise and watch motivated videos to encourage you and restore your desire for life, join a volunteer team to help people in need what Feel you cheerful and make you see life from a new and positive perspective and restore your balance to your vision of reality, writing, blogging or drawing freely
* Remind yourself that during this period you are experiencing psychological changes and educating yourself about this stage will be very helpful in understanding how to deal with it and improving your response to situations.
* Try to do deep breathing exercises and listen to something quiet whenever you feel uncomfortable to reduce the psychological burden
* Try to get close to your father by preparing a breakfast for him, for example, or by leaving morning phrases that you sympathize with, so perhaps he is also going through difficult pressures and circumstances that drive him to do so, and this small behavior may have contributed greatly to improving his psychological health, ask him to practice activities with you like watching a movie he loves or Playing childhood games, and over time and constant attempts will become more soft
* Take full time and prepare a daily to-do list to avoid over thinking in the past.
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