I would like to seek your advice regarding the...

I would like to seek your advice regarding the issues I'm having in my marriage. We have 2 kids. This started about 4 years ago when my first child was 2 years old. I don't get much attention from my husband. He has a good character. Rarely he talks to me angrily and he doesn't complain much. But I expect from my husband love and attention. I rarely get complements from him. Hug and kisses are not something I get daily. It may go like 2-3 weeks or sometimes a month without any intimacy also. He also stopped caring when I'm sad. He ignores my tears and sleeps and it hurts me really bad. In 2018 he got a new job and goes to work in the morning and comes back home between 11 pm and 12 am and slept on sofa most of the nights. When I was pregnant for my 2nd child he rarely gets time to go to doctor with me. I did everything alone without much help from him after delivery also. Now my 2nd child is 2 years old and things are even worse between us. We have moved abroad and he has started his own business. He leaves home around 9 am and comes back  after 11pm most nights. Because of this and the rest of the problems I have mentioned earlier we are having alot of issues in our marriage. He doesn't get time to take me out. I get bored and feel v lonely when kids sleep. I was a working mother before we moved abroad. No matter how much work I had a get out of my office and go home and attend my kids. So I believe if someone is important we should leave work for the next day and make time for them. He thinks it's my fault not to understand he needs to work to provide us food and other basic necessities. I told him clearly I understand he has to work but I will never understand if he keeps coming home so late and not giving us his time. Friday is the only day he stays home but I don't get much attention and help from him on Friday also. He likes to rest all day but takes us for outing in the evening. I told him several times what I expect from him and he agreed to change also but he can't hold on to his promises for long. He does daily 5 prayers but nothing more than that. I always ask him to read Quran daily and make sunnah prayers and read morning and evening zikr. He says he will but when I ask he says he didn't get time and I feel v disappointed. Maybe if he gets close to Allah he will realize what marriage is all about. When I'm sick he doesn't take me to doctor and he leaves to work and doesn't check on me. I really don't understand the point of having a husband. Last night also we had an argument because he promised me to stay home on Saturdays and later he said he needs to go for work. I was v upset and I told him this is enough now he can't keep on making promises and breaking. I told him he does nothing more than hurting me. Maybe I should not have said that. He said I'm not the best wife because I don't support him when he works to provide us. He doesn't complain because I take care of kids well. All these days when I ask him if I need to change anything he says nothing I'm perfect and takes good care of his needs. I feel like he is not happy with me all these days that's why I don't get much love and attention from him. Please guide me how to solve these issues. Since we have kids I don't really want to get a divorce though tonight I told him I have had enough and I want a divorce.