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Maha Srour

Maha Srour

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okay so I’ve been dating that girl and i loveeee herrr so damn much but our relationship wasn’t that perfect because we used to fight a lot we stayed together for like 3 months she was so mean to me sometimes and she cheated on me several times but sometimes i didn’t care that much because I didn’t want to lose her and on the first days when we where friends we promised each other that the block between us won’t be for anything I mean like if she wants to block me from social media the reason has to be worth the block but she stayed blocking me and taking it back for like 4 or 5 times and till that day from 3 years I’ve never blocked her because I just feel like there is no reason to block her till now and I remember that day when I told her that I’ll sleep but she answered after 4 hours and when I asked her where have she been she was like in the middle of nowhere I didn’t know what did she mean by that so I just got so sad but I continued as if nothing happened and then I told her that I’ll sleep but she didn’t say anything she was just like gn (goodnight) but I tried to hold my tears because it hurts so bad watching your person changing on u and that day when I pranked her that I’m breaking up with her for a whole day so when it was 12am I was so happy to talk to her again but the thing that I didn’t expect that will happen is that she said sorry I moved on I have a new girlfriend but we talked about it and I told her that it was a prank and then she blocked that girl but then I realized that she cheated on me.. with her.. I seriously don’t know how to feel.. but now we’re not together anymore

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i miss her so much but she keeps saying that she didn’t expect that from me and whenever I ask her what’s the thing that she didn’t expect it from me she just says that it’s not important anymore it’s over even though I loved her with my life and she’s the one who cheated several times but I’m still trying to know what is the thing that she didn’t expect me to do

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that’s it I hope u can help me

إجابة الخبير: Maha Srour

Maha Srour

Maha Srour

Relationship Therapist

الأسئلة المجابة 27615 | نسبة الرضا 97.6%

He who sincerely loves seeks an excuse for the one he loves and tries to put justifications and excuses for him to stay by his side. Even if all the actions emerging from him indicate the opposite. These are our biggest disappointments in love, as we forgive, justify, and try to convince ourselves to stay while completely ignoring all the signs, faults and mistakes that come from the other party. If she really liked you, I would have told you about the reason that drives her to stay away from you, blamed you, asked you for explanation and clarification, and waited for you to correct the alleged mistake that you are talking about, just because she wants to stay with you. As for her behavior in this way, it means that she did not like you from the beginning. What you have to do is never ask her about the subject. Tell her that you are sure that you have not made a mistake in her right, that your conscience is clear on her part, and that you leave her the freedom to choose whether to speak or not.
Wola never initiates contact with her at all, and if she calls again, tell her either to speak and tell me frankly or not to call back at all. And be sure that when you find that your interest in it has decreased or not, you will try to get your satisfaction and not the other way around. The important thing is that you do not give in to your feelings and resist your longing for them to reach what you want and to have all the cards in the game in your hand and not the other way around.

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but i miss her so much she was making me feel so special she was treating me like a queen but I don’t know what happened and why did she just change the way she was talking to me and how she used to treat me I just don’t wanna lose her

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and I remember one day when we were talking and then I started bringing some memories back like “ heyy remember that day when we went to the mall “ and something like that then she told me to stop and we didn’t talk for a whole day because she started to have feelings for me actually when she said that I was so confused like isn’t that what is supposed to happen? or was she just using me ?

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like when she said I guess im feeling something toward you and I think I love after a whole damn month of our relationship like wait what??? so you didn’t love me from the first ?? I was so confused no jokes

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I love you***

إجابة الخبير: Maha Srour

Maha Srour

Maha Srour

Relationship Therapist

الأسئلة المجابة 27615 | نسبة الرضا 97.8%

When you are sure that you love her very much and that you will not be able to dispense with her, it is natural to act with you in this way, you have to be hard on yourself a little and feel that it no longer means anything to you in order to regain her interest in you.

الرد من العميل

so should I move on and forget about her ?

إجابة الخبير: Maha Srour

Maha Srour

Maha Srour

Relationship Therapist

الأسئلة المجابة 27615 | نسبة الرضا 97.9%

Absolutely you have to value yourself and value yourself in order for it to appreciate you and seek your satisfaction.

الرد من العميل

okay, but what should I do to forget about her like how can I move on ?

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