I wonder what my children and I will do when my...

We would like to inform you that Divorce is not easy, and all solutions must be exhausted first,

 If divorce is the only solution then the parents should forget the problems between them completely and remember only that they are the parents , and that the relationship will not be interrupted by divorce because they must be there for the sake of their children and that the children will always find their parents next to them as parents and not as enemies

So you have to agree on the way to deal with each other and that the interest of the parents is the first place, and that you should explain to them together that the relationship between you ended as a couple and not a cap and a mother, and that they will keep your children together and that you are always there for them so that they do not feel any deficiency or feel that they have lost security and stability